Aid and Attendance is one of the most helpful benefits older veterans and their widows never hear about. It is not a separate program. It is an extra amount added to a VA pension when someone needs another person’s help to get through the day, and it can make assisted living or in-home care affordable.

Three things have to line up

To receive Aid and Attendance, a person has to qualify for the basic VA pension, meet the financial limits, and have a care need. Each piece is explained below.

1. Wartime service

The veteran must have at least one day of active duty during a recognized wartime period, plus a minimum length of service. For most who entered before September 8, 1980, that minimum is 90 days. Enlisted members who started after September 7, 1980 generally need 24 months, or the full period they were called up for. Recognized wartime periods include:

The veteran does not have to have served in combat. The veteran must also be 65 or older, or permanently and totally disabled, or a nursing home patient because of a disability, or receiving Social Security Disability or SSI.

2. Income and net worth

From December 1, 2025 through November 30, 2026, the net worth limit is $163,699. Net worth includes the spouse’s assets and yearly income. The home, the car and most household furnishings are not counted.

The VA also looks back 36 months from the date it receives the claim. If assets were given away or sold for less than they were worth during that window, and they would have pushed net worth over the limit, the VA can impose a penalty period of up to five years with no pension.

3. A care need

At least one of these must be true:

2026 maximum Aid and Attendance rates

These are the VA’s Maximum Annual Pension Rates, effective December 1, 2025. Monthly amounts are the yearly figure divided by twelve and rounded.

SituationPer yearAbout per month
Veteran, no spouse or dependents$29,093$2,424
Veteran with one dependent (such as a spouse)$34,488$2,874
Two veterans married to each other, both qualifying$46,143$3,845
Surviving spouse, no dependents$18,697$1,558
Surviving spouse with one child$22,304$1,859

These are ceilings, not checks. The VA pays the difference between the person’s countable income and the rate in the table. What makes the benefit work for many families is that unreimbursed medical expenses, which can include ongoing care costs, are subtracted from income. Only the portion above 5% of the rate counts. That is why a veteran with a decent Social Security check can still qualify once assisted living or home care bills are factored in.

How to apply

Free help from a Utah Veteran Service Officer

The Utah Department of Veterans and Military Affairs offers free help with VA claims through accredited Veteran Service Officers, in person, by phone or by video. Call 801-326-2372. Veterans service organizations with accredited staff in Salt Lake City include Disabled American Veterans (801-326-2375), the American Legion (801-326-2380) and Veterans of Foreign Wars (801-326-2385).

Be wary of paid “benefit advisors.” VA-accredited representatives are not allowed to charge for help with an initial VA claim, and VSO representatives never charge. The VA has warned about outfits that cold-call families, charge thousands of dollars up front, or offer to move a parent’s assets around to qualify. Moving assets can trigger the look-back penalty and can wreck Medicaid eligibility later. Check anyone who offers help against the VA’s accreditation search before you sign anything.

What to do next

  1. Find the DD-214 and confirm wartime service dates.
  2. Add up monthly income, savings and monthly care costs.
  3. Ask your loved one’s doctor to complete the medical section of VA Form 21-2680.
  4. Book a free appointment with a Utah VSO and file together.
  5. For the bigger picture, see how families pay for assisted living.

Common questions

Does the VA pay for assisted living?

The VA does not pay assisted living rent directly. Aid and Attendance is paid to the veteran or surviving spouse, who can use it toward assisted living, home care or anything else.

Can a surviving spouse get Aid and Attendance?

Yes. A surviving spouse of a wartime veteran can qualify through the Survivors Pension. The 2026 maximum for a surviving spouse with no dependents who qualifies for Aid and Attendance is $18,697 a year.

Does my parent’s house count toward the net worth limit?

No. The VA excludes the primary home, a car and most home furnishings from net worth.

How long does Aid and Attendance take?

The VA processes claims in the order received unless a claim qualifies for priority handling, and it does not publish a set timeline. A complete application with the medical form and care cost records avoids the most common delays.

Counting on Aid and Attendance to make a move possible? We can help you compare communities that fit the budget, free. Tell us about your loved one or call 801-859-7000.

In an emergency, call 911. For a mental health or substance use crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), any time.
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